


We also have seen deer – snakes – and lots of birds!

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We also have seen deer – snakes – and lots of birds!

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Love – family – happy – caring – together -bonding – are but a few words to describe our grandkids.





Papa’s World tries to bring you each day – a little more happiness to your life.
A little relief from everyday negative news – sharing goodness – family and friends.

THANK YOU FOR BEING A PART OF PAPA’S WORLD – a journey for all of us – and a day to remember!


My daily life on social media is to bring smiles – happy thoughts – good deeds – sharing thoughts – being a good person.
The news is filled with sorrow – hate – negative words – death and destruction.
Political discourse – friend against a friend – family against family.
Split down the middle and agitated with a false narrative.

Our actions as adults form the life of a child – repeating endless history through time.

We form our children – we protect them yet they see our actions and imitate them for the worse not the better.
I try with my blogs and with my social media each and every day to spread love- kindness – happy thoughts –
family – friends – church – smiles – and positivity toward the human race in general.



We had rain checks for nine holes of golf at Crow Creek – golf course – so – we and the McBrides booked a tee time!

It was a beautiful day – however, the day before we had a downpour and so it was cart path only!
But – we made the most of it and we only played nine holes!


We had a 3:00 pm. tee time – perfect as we were almost the last tee time!
It was hot – but a breeze –
And we almost had the course to ourselves!

Playing cart path only – is tiring and I really do not like it!
But – – it was really wet and we would have gotten the cart stuck!

We finished around 5:30 pm. – loaded the cars and drove back to our home for dinner and drinks!
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Maddy traveled to Costa Rico – part of her education at college – and with her soccer team.
She raised money for the trip with donations from many people and also knew she would be working
with the underprivileged children of this country.
At the first school children went to – the toilets would not flush and no toilet paper.
Yet the children loved having them as mentors in games and contests.

They played matches against semi-pros of the country and won two of three matches –
losing 3 to 2 on a put-in from their own team!

Along with working with the children – they also had downtime to white water raft –
zip lines and hiking – working out and running on beaches
seeing a volcano and the rainforest.



She has grown up before our eyes – soon to be a senior and one of the captains of her college soccer team.
3.85 GPA – Environmental Science – Engineering
One last year of college and one last year of playing college soccer.
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GRANDDAUGHTER IN COSTA RICO – WORKING WITH CHILDREN – PLAYING SOCCER – LIFETIME EXPERIENCE!

For forty-two years – forty married – they have been my life!
While I am their stepdad – they are like my own –
I am the luckiest man in the world.

They call me PAPA – and it is like a badge of honor to me.
They hug me goodnight when we stay with them – Bode gets up in the morning and the first thing he does
comes down the stairs to our bedroom – and usually, I am blogging –
He runs up to me and throws his arms around my neck –
” I LOVE YOU PAPA”!

We combined two families – four very young kids – and started the next forty years together.

Debby was eight going on nine when Sherry and I married – we were engaged for one year prior
and dated one year prior to that.

The three of them – laughing – giggling – so full of life – love them – proud of each of them.
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The storms were out there – but also clearing skies – we seem to get all these clouds every day from the ocean!

This storm rolled in from the NE – from the ocean.
It got very still and hardly any wind – the rain would come.




THE SKIES OF CAMERON WOODS COMMUNITY – OCEAN ISLE BEACH, NORTH CAROLINA – LIVING THE SALT LIFE!

TWELVE DAYS of non-stop activity – crossing off all that was on the list plus whatever we added!
Ferry rides – Fort Fisher – aquarium – scavenger hunt – arts and crafts at the park – Wonder Works in Boardwalk on the Beach – Lulu’s and playground at Barefoot Landing – Plus Bullys for lunch –
Then there were go-carts – mini golf – beach time – tidal pool – fireworks – golf cart parade – walking and riding bikes – crafts at home – IPAD time –
There was more – twelve days worth – and yes we were exhausted – but even now we miss them.

The parents came for overnight and then headed to Topsail Beach for vacation with Marcus’s family.
The kids were excited as they would see their cousins and grandparents.

It was a full twelve days of non-stop going – playing – creating – laughing – and they were so good!

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We had a lifestyle change 17 years ago – I had eaten unhealthy for 45 years – much of that time fast food!
And I am fortunate that we took steps to eat healthily – as in my mind – I would not have survived –
For I had a Massive Heart Attack almost eight years ago!

But Sherry started taking nutrition classes and I followed what she learned.
I had already done the damage to my heart previously
had I not changed –
Well – the doctors told me I was the healthiest heart attack they had ever seen!
What we had done for nine years saved my life!

I gave up fast foods – most red meat – most dairy and no more milk!
No more sodas and cut way down on sweets.
It is a very hard thing to do – so my motto today is LIVING LIFE ONE DAY AT A TIME !

Cilantro – frozen blueberries – orange juice – two bananas – and a teaspoon of Organic Barley Grass
and Micro Ingredients( Vitamin A – Iron – Protein – Sodium – Carbohydrates – 1 g)
Blend in a blender and then drink a full glass!

Sherry is a certified Health Coach – we have also for 17 years taken a supplement called Juice Plus.
A process where 30 fruits – vegetables and berries – are juiced – dried – and put into capsule form or gummies!
Taken every day – this is what changed the most in my health.
And as a way to watch what I eat every day so as not to overload my system –
I also drink one of their powdered shakes – French Vanilla or Dutch Chocolate
and for me, it is a meal supplement! Usually lunch!

I now call my life – LIVING LIFE TO THE PLUS – ONE DAY AT A TIME!
It has been a journey – one that I can write about as I am still alive!
This is me – this is my life – my reasons to still be here –
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This was drawn and painted by one of the employees who work at the pier!
The morning – first a beach walk – then two mazes for the kids to work their way out –
and then to the pier to have ice cream before their parents get there from NVA!

Day twelve of having grandkids staying with us!
We were so busy – ferry rides – mazes – aquarium – Boardwalk on the Beach – Barefoot Landing –
Mini golf – beach days – go- carts – music festival – arts and crafts – playgrounds – scavenger hunt –
Fourth of July golf cart parade – fireworks – eating out for lunch and dinners!
Walking – bikes – hoverboards – monopoly (Brunswick)- games – drawing –
Huge tidal pool – riding the waves – sunset slushes and more.





Now we have found out there are two different men who are drawing MAZES on the beach!
And both are done with just a special shovel – and that is it!

He has a Facebook page and now does it in memory of his wife who passed away.
According to a newspaper article – he does this with only a shovel and in his mind –
he draws them – starting in the middle and working out.
His wife would accompany him and test them out to make sure they were right.


Now – we have discovered a second man who draws his MAZES on the beach by the third street beach access.

The grandkids loved both of them – if you take the grandkids to the beach –
this will keep them entertained for a long time! LOL

His MAZES seem to be larger – I watched him and he would go into the maze and do some patch-up work with the shovel.

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We had lists of things to see and do while they were here for twelve days!
The downtime was also on those lists and arts and crafts for each of them.
Keeping three kids on the go – with rest times.

While he did the crafts by himself – we had to read a lot of the instructions to him so he would understand them. He will be in second grade in the fall.
He did very well and made the contraption to pick up items from the floor.

She would much more like to ride a horse but she was game and made the things you see here
even stitching the leather notepad holder.
She is our reader – books and books – always reading.

She is so talented – making things – she made the cards – painted the switch plate covers –
painted rocks and copied the American flag that President Bush painted – exactly like he did.


The list was long – but downtime was important and it showed in the arts and crafts.
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They show no prodigious – they share – they love and they sometimes cry but hug afterward.
They are children and we as adults are responsible for their eys in the future!

Our time here on earth is short – but our influence goes generation to generation –
Our historical presence is passed forward
If only we could overcome those thoughts and ideas and actions.

Look for the goodness of people – share love and gratitude – have compassion.
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While I have known she has the ability to create – it surprised me just how well she can draw.
Sherry saw a picture on social media of an American flag painted by President Bush –
for the celebration of July 4th.
I guess he just did it in a few moments – as he also is a good artist.
She asked Cassidy if she could do the same thing by looking at the picture!

It looks just like his!
She has a unique ability to look at something and reproduce it!
A few down days and she sat and started drawing!
No one bothers her and she is very quiet – only a pencil and paper.


She is her own self – and a quiet sweetheart.

She has a focus on detail – a sense of shade – these are all just penciled drawings.
I showed them to her mother and I think she needs to pursue this talent.

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“OUR CASSIDY – SEEMS SHE IS AN ARTIST”!

When they are home – it is outside they go – playing with friends – riding bikes!
So – before they came to visit for twelve days – we asked them to think about what they wanted to do!
And they came up with a list for each one to do and day by day we crossed those items off –
somedays more than one!


I still can not believe we did all of this – each day we added and crossed off – one by one.
And yes – by the end we were exhausted – but it was a good feeling and now –
They are gone and I wish they were back.



Here is where we took the grandkids for lunch after mini-golf – to SNOOKY’S.
This was the area we lived in for nine months at Ocean Keyes while the house was being built.
We would walk this beach every day for our three-mile walk.
This area here is where you ride the jet skies – paraglide and the big banana boats!
A great family beach!
Walk to main street and shopping.

SNOOKY’S is our favorite beach bar and grill in NMB!
We have taken most family and friends here.
Also – the water was very warm and great for swimming and wading.


What a good day – mini golf which is all Bode talked about and he picked out the mini golf course.
Lunch at Snooky’s and then some time hunting shells in the surf of Cherry Grove.
If you are interested in making the Myrtle Beach area your vacation spot – I recommend this area
as it is a great place for families and the beach are fantastic.




The Ocean Isle Beach tidal pool is on the east end of the island is near the new groin break wall.

The area does not have many people come to it as you have to walk from your car to get to it!
But – the beach here is so peaceful and quiet.
The tidal pool makes it easy to not have to watch the little ones all the time!
You can see the new groin break wall in the background!

What was nice was she did not have to worry about other people on the beach as we were in a spot with no one within fifty yards of where we sat.
East end of Ocean Isle Beach, N.C.

You can see in the pictures just how many people were around – a great spot to spend some quiet time!

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We had them all to ourselves for twelve days! It was a busy time with a list that we completed!
And downtime scheduled in for time to relax!


We had to have downtime – for us and for them! LOL!
We planned events every day – and played during beach time –
But also crafts that all three did!
All three are talented!




In her downtime – this was her go-to – headphones and reading her books or watching movies.
They had their own creative space to do whatever they wanted for a couple hours!

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We left Boardwalk on the beach and drove back to Barefoot Landing in North Myrtle Beach.
We lived for nine months near here and often came to just walk our three miles!
Around the lake and by the ICW and the marina.
Crooked Hammock – we watched it being built during the nine months we lived at Ocean Keyes.
Today – when we have friends staying with us or family – we try to bring them here.


The huge old oak tree in the playground.

This huge tree – was in another spot some 800 feet away –
they made that area into a parking lot and kept this tree by moving it here!
It is a few hundred years old and they wanted to save it.
That is conversation!

A good way to wrap up another busy day with the grandkids.
Going to miss them – life as grandparents – PRICELESS!
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If you are in Boardwalk on the beach – Wonder Works is tough to miss – it is a huge Mansion –
Completly “UPSIDE DOWN”!
I really did not know what to expect – only that some time ago I had asked a family –
that was exiting if it was worth it?
YES – YES – YES they replied – take your grandkids – they will love it and you can go in and out all day long!
WONDERWORKS!



Once there – you can head in a number of different directions – on beams six inches wide!


The routes would go higher and higher – some 30 to 40 feet off the floor!
And the surfaces would change – always an obstacle course to navigate!
They played up there for over two hours and went up twice!
But – this was only one game to play in this building –
A maze on the bottom floor for LASER TAG – which we also did!

showing your pose – they did this a couple times.
There was a virtual ride where you are strapped in your seat and it moved to whatever was being shown.
For instance a roller coaster for a coal car – up and down and around sharp corners.
The whole time you feel as if you are actually doing it!
WONDERWORKS!

All in all – we were in the UPSIDE DOWN HOUSE WONDER WORKS for over FIVE HOURS!
They loved it and so did we as we also got to do things!
It also is very educational there.

Cassidy was the same way but she promised Taylor she would not leave her!

We decided to leave Boardwalk on the beach and drive to Barefoot Landing for an early dinner.
But – to anyone who wants to visit Boardwalk on the Beach in Myrtle Beach –
The upside-down house WONDER WORKS is a treat for yourself and your kids or grandchildren!
NOTE: Check it out online as it does have some height restrictions!
Bode was fine – he passed all the restrictions.



It was a warm evening – and the kids were excited – we made our way onto the island and found a spot to park right across the street from the pier – we carried our chairs to a grassy area next to the roadway – we were about to have front row seats!







We were front row with our chairs and the grandkids were so excited!
Here you see Bode – Taylor – Cassidy and Sherry.
It was a joyous celebration of our nations birthday!







OIB – JULY 4th. GOLF CART PARADE – and then the RAIN CAME!


You should see the LIST – things that they wanted to do and wrote down!
We have one more to do – tomorrow – MINI GOLF!
Bode has wanted to play mini-golf on this one course in North Myrtle Beach
since we have been down here for two years!
The one that has the Airplane and Helicoper!


And the crafts they have done and completed – hours and hours of doing them!

We have been going to the beach every other day, mostly in late afternoons or early evenings.
That way – they will not get sunburned and they are now so tanned!

Having them here has been a joy – it will be twelve days total and their parents will pick them up.
Excitement – laughter – and some groans – but all in all – they have been very good.

Last year it was one week – this year twelve days – and we have done a lot in those times!
“PAPA – MORMOR – WHAT ARE WE DOING NEXT”?
I am going to miss them when they leave but will see them in a couple weeks –
they are going with their parents for an additional week on the beach at Topsail, N.C.
Then home and for two weeks will practice with a professional crew from California
in the musical LION KING!
We are going home to watch them.


Almost every day weather permitting – for the last 8 to 10 years – a man ( I do not know his name)
appears on the beach with just a shovel and draws these amazing MAZES!
There have been numerous newspaper articles – Facebook and other social pages and stories
of his unique style of PUZZLES on the beach at low tide.

The diagram also has instructions on how to TURN at each intersection –
you can not just walk straight through – you must turn in any direction.

The articles I have read – he does this as a hobby and for years for his wife until she passed away.
He decided to continue in her memory each day – she would accompany him and test out the MAZE!
I would like to meet him and talk to him!
While we were there for 45 minutes – at least a hundred people stopped and tried to solve the MAZE!



Although Ocean Isle Beach is closer to our home – we always take the company to Sunset Beach!
The beach is wider and more flat and shallow!
Plus – Sunset Beach is more residential and not as commercial.




The two – Bode and Cassidy are just alike although it is Taylor and Cassidy who are the twins.
Taylor takes after her MorMor who is tall – as do her cousins Sarah and Ella.
All three are going to be over 5’10”!


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They both remind me of their mother Tammy driving around and around.
From a distance, I thought it was her.
We also found out that the show Hightower on Paramount – was filming there.
They were there once and the next day shooting again.
We passed the enormous white tents of the production crews –
and there was a flashing traffic sign announcing the date and shooting of the show.


After going on the go-karts twice – it was down time –
we stopped for Italian ice and then into the park to just relax and enjoy the evening.

PAPA’S WORLD – Grandkids – Go-Karts – Slushes – OH MY!!!!

We have an enclosed lanai along with an open patio with a fire pit.
It does get really hot in the sun out in the open – but mornings are shaded and so are early evenings.


Needless to say – we are not happy with this – I spread snake-be-gone around and mow the grass short.
But – it is a protected area in the woods – and since I put down the snake-be-gone –
we have not seen anymore – but I warn the grandkids to watch what they are doing!
This one I later found out was not poisonous and as soon as I took the picture-
it turned around and very fast went back into the woods.


We have also seen them down by the pond!
At night – deer will set off our motion light in the backyard as I will look out and see them.
We are only four miles from the beach – but it is real country.
One of the reasons we picked this area.



On the day of our anniversary – June 25th. – we journeyed to Boiling Springs, N.C. to play golf-
at THE LAKES golf course with our friends Buck and Cindy McBride!

We have been friends for over 35 years – and now that we live some 38 miles from them –
we get together to play golf as often as we can.

The course is off the beaten path and is the oldest course in Brunswick County, N.C.
But it is a fun course and not crowded when we played in the early afternoon.
Most golfers like to play early – when it is not so hot –
It does not bother us and we like no one pushing us!

Buck and I have been golfing partners for years and years – going way back to WNY!

It was a great way to spend the day – celebrating our anniversary – then having dinner at their house.

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Our grandson – Bode – put together an outfit for this particular day!

He selected everything here and his mother helped him attach the Star Wars figure on his shoulder.


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I can see it like it was yesterday – taking them to pre-school – singing a song!
Twins – dressed alike and their little HELLO KITTY backpacks!
They are different – Taylor was the bigger – in fact, the reason they were brought into this world early!
Cassidy at 3 lbs and Taylor at almost 4 lbs.
For some reason, she was getting all the nutrients and growing – so at 32 weeks plus a day or two
the doctors decided it was time – and it also was their mother’s birthday!
So now we celebrate birthdays in threes!

Cassidy is the one who calls every week to talk to her MORMOR ( mothersmother) Swedish.
While she looks short – she is of average height – Taylor is going to be tall like her MORMOR!
Cassidy does soccer while Taylor has ridden horses since she barely walked.
Today they are both alike and different.

Taylor would spend all her time riding and carrying for horses.
Cassidy – searching YouTube for projects to make – she is really good at that.

Our little ones with the HELLO KITTY backpacks –
So grown up and doing their own things.
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Decided to go to North Myrtle Beach where we lived for nine months until our house was built!
Mike and Sarah had not been there and we wanted to do a little shopping.
Then it was onto Barefoot Landing – another place we would go to while living in this area.


Shopping – looking around and Mike and I went to the waterfront bar of Crooked Hammock.


It was a fun-filled day exploring with the family –
Sarah got to go to her store that sells crystals
Mike got to see where we lived for nine months

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Today they are grown up – two in college – one in H.S.
Where did that time go?
They still are full of laughing – smiles and giggles.

Sarah came along unexpected – and was always running around – clinging to her sisters.
All three are athletic – Sarah in track and the other two in soccer.

The growing up – in college – and now young adults – and coming to our home – loving the beach.

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SARAH – MADDY – and ELLA – the Myers girls!

It was family time – a little bit of competition – racing GO-CARTS!
I sat this one out as I had a little kink in my back!
But – they all had a blast – round and round!
We found out later that the next day they were completing shooting a movie right there!
We had passed huge white tents being set up and there were flashing road signs – saying the movie set filming would be the next day.
Then I read in the news that they had already filmed at the track and were coming back to wrap it up!

Before the go-carts, we went to OIB FISH COMPANY to the top Tiki deck to have lunch!
And then down the stairs to the open-air bar to watch the boats coming and going.

We packed as much exploring time along with the beach as we could.
Being this was not a whole week as the older girls – who are college students-
had to return for work.
But – we did do the beach every day – we took them all into North Myrtle Beach
Leaving so many things to do when they come back.



Our family from Lake Holiday in Va. visited and we took them on a four-mile walk in the surf –
To the KINDRED SPIRIT MAILBOX and back!
This mailbox has been there for over 40 plus years.
Put there by a hippie and his girlfriend all those years ago.
Today – thousands of people every year walk to it – take out a journal and write their thoughts.
Those journals have been collected as historical and some are in a museum.
There are benches there and a driftwood piece with a plaque with his name on it.
One bench also has a plaque with a lady’s name and it calls her the KINDRED SPIRIT!





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They came for a short visit – the first time for Mike and Sarah.
Sarah is the youngest at 15 years old.
Then Ella at 18 years old and Maddy at 21 years old.
Here they are under the pier at OIB.



Ella also is 5’10” and will start her Sophomore year at Randolph College –
where, as a Freshman, she started and played soccer at mid-field.
Maddy – will be a senior and three-year starter at the University of Lynchburg, in soccer.
She is co-captain this coming year –

The time here is going so fast but they will be back in the future.
It is hard to get everyone together as college- H.S. – breaks all differ and Mike is a teacher and his breaks are different.
But we found out the two oldest will play against each other in September as they did last year.
A trip up to Va. is in the future to watch them.

A very good day bonding and gathering on the beaches –
family time together –
The Myers from Lake Holiday, Va.


This has been the first time I have seen snakes in the backyard!
I knew they were around – I was sitting out here and saw my first one
about twenty feet away.
I am respectful of snakes as long as they keep their distance.
This one was coming through the grass straight at me!

When I got up and took a step toward it – it stopped and raised its head.
It was not afraid of me and just stayed where it was at.
I managed to get a picture of it and later identified it as non-poisnous
But it was long – and extensive around – a water snake someone said.
Now – we are in a drought and very dry.
The woods is where it came from and there is a pond about a quarter-mile away.
But no water back there.

I know snakes are in there but we do not go near them and always are watching and looking down.

Both snakes – as soon as I turned away – reversed their direction and very quickly went back into the woods.
Since then I have made sure the grass is cut low – they like long grass –
and we bought SNAKE-BE-GONE and MOTH BALLS!
I spread it all along the tree line – so far have not seen anymore.
But – our neighbors down the street – had a timber rattler in their yard that bit their dog!
They rushed it to the vet and was saved and took a picture of the snake,
So – we are careful when out in the yard or walking the streets and paths.
We are investigating other methods of snake control –
we have several species of dangerous snakes in this state.
I respect nature but also want to protect ourselves and our company.
It is all part of living in the south.

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We decided at the spur of the moment to buy tickets – got great seats just to the right behind home plate
and take in a minor league ball game.
When we lived in NVA – we often went and saw the Nationals play in D.C.
Now – I normally do not watch baseball on TV unless it is my team I follow.
But – minor league to me is different – full of little games between innings.
The cold beer and peanuts – a slice of pizza or a hot dog.

But first, we stopped at Barefoot Landing in North Myrtle Beach –
at one of our favorite places – CROOKED HAMMOCK!
This is a brand new brewery – perhaps opening a little over a year ago.
They sold beer out of a little RV trailer while consturction was going on to complete the brewery.
We like it here and stop in every so often – this time to buy a hat for our son-in-law
who requested one.
He had bought one when they visited us and wanted a new one.
So – we left early and stopped before the game.



Just a little time out and away from home – worth the money and a good time for a few hours.
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These concerts are from top bands in the Carolinas – and are free to the public.
6:30 pm. to 8:30 pm.
The policy is against cans and bottles of alcohol
but as long as you have it poured into a plastic cup or another container- you are good to go.
These open-air concerts are also free every Wednesday night at Sunset Beach.
Both events draw large crowds of locals and tourists.
Just bring your chair and set it up – and then for two hours enjoy the music.
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Today I write on the two younger granddaughters – having written about Maddy in a previous blog.
Ella – caring – always does what you ask with no questions.
Warm – friendly – my LITTLE TINY as I called her.
Sarah – outgoing – fashion – arts – glamor – Broadway – big cities.
My Whirlwind when she was little.
While she may be a little homesick – she is thriving at college.
Stable – understanding – polite – team – not an “I” in her vocabulary!
She is who she is – kind – smart – always giving – understanding and an idol to Bode as she is to many little ones.
Try as I might to keep them little once again – she has grown these last years –
soon to be 5′ 9″ and beyond like her grandmother Sherry – as is Ella.
” GO FORTH – THE WORLD IS YOURS” is what I think when I see Sarah.

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It seems like only yesterday they were running around – laughing – excited – little – little girls.
Sitting on the top of the stairs – waiting for their parents to get up on Christmas mornings.
The youth soccer games – then the travel teams – and for Sarah – dance – acting – animated.
Today – they are 21 – 18 and 15 – all about to leap forward another year older.
Maddy is a senior to be in college and Ella is a Sophomore to be in college.
Sarah is a Sophomore to be in H.S.
Maddy at 5’6″ is now the shortest – Ella is 5’10 and Sarah is almost as tall.
They take after their grandma’s Swedish heritage – Sherry is 5’9″.
Both Maddy and Ella play soccer and start on their college teams – Maddy will be one of the captains.
Sarah is a free spirit – funny – outgoing – and will run track.
The Myers girls – our oldest granddaughters.
Our little granddaughters are gone –
replaced now by beautiful young ladies.
Maddy has a major in Environmental Science
Ella is going to be an elementary PHYS ED TEACHER.
Sarah – who knows – she is a free spirit – a runner and dancer and acting.
She also is young and has many years left to decide.
Our family from Lake Holiday, Cross Junction – Winchester, Va.
Little girls have almost all grown up.
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The walls I believe came from rocks on the property as there still are large natural rock outcroppings!
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She is eleven years old in this picture – she is going to be very tall – as Sherry is 5′ 9″!
Everytime – she will reach for her hand – to hold as they walk.
Quiet – always does what you ask – sweet – caring – until she gets upset – then it is TAYLOR BEAR!
She is the one who takes care of the new puppy MARLEY –
She also loves to ride horses and takes lessons once a week for the last 4 or 5 years!

And then there is Bode – who adores Ella and when he watches her play –
you can hear him all over the stadium!
She is his idol – and he is following in her footsteps playing soccer.
And when it does – I hope Ella is there to see it and then Cheer him on!
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For sixteen years she has strived for helping many – many people in health and nutrition.
Founding the Tean Generations for friends – family and others –
she has encapsulated her Certified Health Coach into an East Coast team
of like individuals – all striving to help adults and children into a healthy lifestyle.
Cassidy decided that this was the year she wanted to play soccer –
after a few years of on and off again.
The Pandemic played a role in that –
I was impressed when she went one-on-one with another boy from the other team.
She held her own and took the ball from him!
She is quick and fast – but I also see her hesitate when in a scrum –
but I think she will outgrow that as she plays more and more.
They have her in the back to play defense much as they did when her cousins
Maddy and Ella played.
Bode is fast – aggressive and quick – playing the front –
he needs to get his skills and I see that coming along quickly.
He is going to be tall like Taylor – ( who now rides horses bareback! )
Bode is a natural in whatever he does. A good athlete.
I see him developing into a very fast-aggressive soccer player.
Their soccer season has come to an end.
We got back up there to watch them both play their last games for this year.
The ladies of our family – and we do have one boy – Bode!
Being the only boy with two sisters and three girl cousins – and they all adore him!
Well – the girl cousins do! LOL
A close-knit family – Debby and Tammy followed us to NVA – along with Debby’s husband and Maddy.
Tammy met and married Marcus in NVA.
Today – they all reside in NVA while we have moved on to N.C.

One is the oldest granddaughter while the second is the youngest granddaughter with her twin sister.
One is in her third year at University of Lynchburg – Enviromental Engineering major.
One is in the fifth grade – so caring she calls or zooms her grandmother almost every day.
One starts at the attack front position for the ranked lady soccer hornets soccer team.
And had played in 13 games as a freshmen – started her Sophomore year and again as a junior.
One moved to sit beside her older cousin at the soccer game.
Both are dear to our hearts!


Granddaughters – oldest to youngest – youngest admires the oldest – both exceptional to us –
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Our first overnight stop was with our family at Lake Holiday – the Myers family.
The only one missing was Sarah and Maddy had her college roommate spending a few days with them.
We cruised the lake for about an hour – most of it at slow speed and it was very warm,
both the air and the water.
June 25th. 1982 Portville, N.Y. June 25th. 2022 Cameron Woods Community, OIB, N.C.
Today we celebrate 40 years of being married – we still,
love each other – still following our dreams.
Equal to one another – belief in one another – sharing – respect – caring and moving forward –
one day – one week – one month and one year at a time.
Two souls – two minds – not always agreeing – but always backing each other.

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Mike and Carol and Cindy and Buck were our neighbors in Pleasant Acres – Portville, N.Y.
Jim and Dottie lived just across the border in Eldred, Pa. where I grew up.
Then we all went our own ways – Buck and Cindy to Magnolia Greens – Leland, N.C.
Jim and Dottie to Va. Beach, Va.
Mike and Carol to Chautauqua Lake, Jamestown, N.Y.
Sherry and Papa to Cameron Woods Community – Ocean Isle Beach, N.C. via NVA!
We all still get together after all these years – FRIENDS!
Out for a beer tasting in Va. Beach, area!
We went to Southport, N.C. before going to Caswell Beach on Oak Island – to meet friends!
We wanted to explore it a little bit more the Southport area!
What we found was the waterfront with all these places to eat and sit and watch the boats go by!
We had the best view while having lunch – and this bay is very wide – a warm breeze – a drink –
living life to the plus in retirement in N.C.
We had an early morning walk – the sun had already come up and it was the beginning of a good day!
After walking in the community – we decided to go to Sunset Beach and see what was happening in the park on the mainland side.
This park sits on the banks of the ICW – and has these giant live oak trees –
providing shade – paved walking trails and benches to sit on.
Also – three-person glider swings – all facing the water!

We had restrooms nearby – picnic tables and a shelter – a car nearby and walking distance to ice cream!
Places to eat were also close by – as was the boat launch.
We will go back – take our chairs – cooler and food – find a place in the shade and just relax.
A 15-minute drive from our home in Cameronwood Community – on the mainland side-
SUNSET BEACH PARK.
Thanks for reading and once we got back home the sun was starting to set –
an end to a very good day!
My own father passed away when I was nineteen years old – ten years later – my mother remarried
and John Soules Jr. became my stepdad.
I knew he was in the war – but he never talked about where or what he had done.
I knew he had been wounded – but I did not know how serious.
I knew he captured a German SS officer out of uniform in a castle.
But I never knew about all the meadals.
After my mother passed away – I came across this write-up of him in her box of memories.
I was once told by a friend if the family named SKEET –
“You know your stepdad is a real-life war hero”!
After reading this I understood what he was talking about.
Thank you John “Jr” – for what you did – RIP. A true WWII hero.
He became like an older brother -father to me after we were married.
He made me promise to never tell anyone what he told me about the war.
So – I have not said much of anything except what he said I could.
One story was about him and several men in fox holes in the darkest hours of the night.
It was very cold and snow on the ground.
They could see movement across the span of white snow.
They were scared and thought the Germans were going to creep upon them.
They spent all night watching and waiting – barely breathing and so cold.
Any moment they expected an attack and were so scared.
In the dawn, they could now see what they thought were German soldiers
was leaflets that had been dropped from planes on the ground.
Some had been caught on bushes and were fluttering in the breeze.
This was a story he said I could tell and later it was funny to him and the other men.
But for that period in the night – it was hell waiting.
In the end, he was in Berlin and was a driver for a general.
He told of going to a movie theater and watching newsreels.
I wish I could say more but he made me promise so I will honor that
as I honor another WWII hero.
Thank you Bill for your service and RIP.
You have my word.


Honoring those that have served – past and present – on Memorial day.
After spending the day here at Sunset Beach – one of the top ten beaches in the country –
we drove the short ride back to our Cameron Woods Community.
After dinner and having a small sprinkle of rain – I went outside in the clean fresh air – warm –
and beheld the night early evening sky!
It was a good day – one that we spent at the beach and then back home once again.
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My wife is of a Swede descent – and I am of Irish descent.
Our friends – he is also of Irish descent – and I think she is also.
We have known each other for almost 40 years!
And when we first started golfing together – Sherry and Cindy had not golfed!
They made fun of us washing the balls while they wore gloves to keep their hands warm!
That was back in WNY where we all were neighbors!
Today – that is much different as they have gotten quite good!
We play a scramble – us vs. them – and lately – they have given us strokes –
it is hard to beat pars – and we can’t putt! LOL
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While many people all go to see the sunset at Sunset Beach – I think it is just as beautiful at OIB!
We parked across the street from the church and walked down through the lawn
to this gazebo – no one was around and we just sat down next to one another.
It was a little chilly with the breeze but the view was awesome!
There were no signs to stay away – and no one was around –
It was quiet and peaceful.
We gathered at 6:00 pm. for some snacks and cocktails on Sunset Beach –
it was very windy but warm and at that time of day – we pretty much had the beach to ourselves!
A small group as it was during the week and many people were not around.
Neighbors come and go all week long – some work from home – others retired.
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We have all known each other from NVA for years.

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Our daughter married Marcus in 2005 – and since then – a set of twins – Cassidy and Taylor –
Both are about to turn 12 years old.
Bode is now seven years old – all boy and things boys do.
Taylor is riding horses and Cassidy is playing soccer.
About a year ago – along came Marley – the Goldendoodle!
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First, there was Tammy and Marcus – then Taylor and Cassidy and Bode –
AND ALONG CAME MARLEY – The Krohn’s!
One of the reasons we moved to this area on the border of N.C. and S.C. is the golfing!
We have almost 25 courses within 30 minutes of our location and we love to golf.
Our friends also live down here and we try to golf once a week with them.


Our community of Cameron Woods we chose because it was not clearcut –
a lot of old-growth is here and we love that!
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We moved South from NVA which was where we thought we would stay in retirement!
But – then the Pandemic and the downturn hit – but our home value soared!
It was time – so we sold almost everything and came South –
to the border region of N.C. and S.C. – to OIB!
From our driveway, we get to see both sunrise and sunsets here in N.C. –
and we are only a couple miles from the beach!
We are close to two beaches – Ocean Isle Beach and Sunset Beach, N.C.

