Unknown to us – this Castle would become a controversy at one of the debates!
When we were in Northern California with our friends –
we visited Napa Valley – and choose two wineries to visit-
This is the Castle we picked over google –
and it also is where a Democratic runner for the ticket
had a pay per plate for a chance to be with the canidate.
Little did we know that this place is very famous for such events!
In the famous WINE CAVE!
We traveled – we hosted friends – we lived life in 2019.
We visited the Capital building in Washington DC. In front of the statue of famous women of USA with a part unfinished saved for the first WOMAN PRESIDENT!
We live 30 some miles from Washington DC.
and have made trips into the city
but had never toured the Capital building.
Paul and Jo friends from Tucson With them we went to Congress!
We went to their Congress women’s office
and were taken on a tour of the Capital
and got to see Congress!
17 mile road to Pebble Beach
We got to see Pebble Beach – have a drink overlooking #18.
And a picture in front of one of the most famous pine trees!
The signature LONE PINE of Pebble Beach!
HS buddy and wife stopped in for a couple nights we go back 60 plus years!
Friends from the past – memories shared – catching up for 52 plus years.
Watching our oldest grand daughter play her first year in college of soccer at the University of LynchburgOur friends for 38 years celebrating the Bills win Jim and I go back 42 years playing softball together
Our life is full – friends – family -adventures –
crossing of the bucket list!
The team celebrating health and nutrition in Austin Texas Sherry back row middle http://www.sf.juiceplus.com
Our life continues – helping people eat right –
making a difference in the lives of all we can
and seeing how it has the effect it does on children!
Sharing life with friends for over 38 yearsHosted a Movie star ( over 150 films & Tv. ) and a World known acordian and piano player
We had no idea we would be doing this
but opportunity knocked and we answered
Got to sit and talk about their careers
IT WAS AWESOME!
FIVE grand daughters ONE grand son!
We are blessed to have the grand kids nearby.
And of course the one boy is loved- esp. Ella & him
He adores her and she him! Ella far left.
Where we started this blog At the Castle outside the “WINE CAVE”
I could go on and on – 2019 has been a great year-
We traveled into DC to watch our twin grand daughters
sing in a fourth grade chorus of 110 classmates!
Papa – Bode & MorMor
But first we had to get there – so we took Bode on the Metro!
Five year old grandson Bode
And you can see the excitement in his eyes!
Riding the train!
Coming up at the Regan Center
We arrived around 3:00 pm. The girls were to sing at 5:00 pm.
So – we walked to
the Elephant & Castle to have lunch!
MorMor ( Sherry) & Bode
We were going to meet Tammy and Marcus
and we killed some time before going back outside
in the wind and cold –
18 degrees wind chill!
Marcus Bode Tammy We met up but the gates were closed because somewhere there was a incident we never learned what it was!
So – we walked up the street to Old Ebbit Grill
And they had some wine
and got warmed up!
Tammy and Bode at Old Ebbits Grill
When we walked back down the street
we found all 110 kids standing outside the gate
they still were not allowed in!
We found Taylor and of course as always a big smile!
And then we found Cassidy so darned cute in her purple hat and scarf!
Soon – the secret service and the park police arrived
and opened up all the gates –
Then it was onto the Christmas Tree stage
The stage with the White house Christmas tree behind it!
It was really cold and the wind was blowing
All the kids were ushered into a big tent
where they grouped up – got warm
and waited to come out!
The director of the choir and Cassidy in Purple climbing up to her spot on the top row
Cassidy ended up on the top row – and you could see her rising
up and down on her tiptoes to be seen! LOL
Taylor ended up in the front row
Then they began to sing – and I was very impressed!
The Madison Trust fourth grade chorus
They sang five songs – and they were really good –
All are classmates of the fourth grade in the school they attend.
The White House Christmas TreeThe WHITE HOUSE in the background Each small tree is from all the different statesBeautiful sky behind the treeSome of the toy towns and trains on the lawnSherry with the Washington Monument in the back ground It was cold!Cassidy – fifth from the right
Soon – that word – meaning like just around the corner – is about to happen!
Our little grand daughter Maddy – with her “PIGGY” – which went everywhere she went. Just outside Sherry’ s parents home.
She now is 18 and about to graduate and start a brand new journey at The University of Lynchburg, Va. And signed a letter of intent to play soccer.
Maddy sitting next to her sister Ella at Raquet Lake N.Y.
She has grown into a beautiful young lady – who maintains a 4.10 GPA. Playing soccer at a high level.
Here she is with her two other sisters and her twin cousins. With GIGI who sadly passed away last November – Sherry’s mother.
Through the years – when she was almost as small as the soccer ball – she played – co-ed and then onto two travel teams. One in Winchester Va. and then – to better herself- she traveled 60 miles each way three times a week to practice with the Loudoun RED soccer team.
Forever young in my mind.
The years have swiftly marched by – all the games in and out of state have passed – memorable only in so many pictures taken. Now – she is about to take the final walk on stage – graduate and then go on.
Her drawing years ago of her ” PIGGY” as she called it – so innocent on a swing – memory of sweet youth.
The memory of the little girl – always smiling – always so small – everyone else was so much bigger until the growth spurt of the last few years. Today – she is almost as tall as her grandmother Sherry who is 5 ‘ 9″ !
She has grown into her role as starting midfielder the last four years.
Three sisters – the start of college – leaving the home – and two behind.
The years have gone by so fast – the other two will be left behind at home – but her presence will always be felt – her favorite “PIGGY” on top of the stuffed animals – her MANATEE blanket on the wall. The trampoline will only feel the bounce of the younger two. The sound of the soccer ball will be down to one – her memory will remain – but her journey begins.
Her determination – all conference – signed letter of intent- to play college soccer
Today I blog not a end or an old story – but the beginning of a new book – a new chapter and a new page about to open up – the little one has gone into memory – but the image still lingers in my mind – PACA – is what she called me – I think because she couldn’t quite say PAPA – but she made my World – and I look forward to the travel to watch once again. The memory shall always be with me – the little foot striking the big soccer ball -and then the smile and off she would go.
SMILE A SMILE FOR ME MY LITTLE MADDY
I hope you all enjoy this as much as I did writing it – my tribute to the little one – the soccer ball almost as big as she is.
Today I post a story – a story written not by me – but by a friend.
A special friend and a special story for all.
Wishing you a blessed Christmas and a Happy New Year
The story takes place years ago –
in the memory of a little girl
Her mother – and siblings
” A CHRISTMAS STORY”
Tiffany Ford
One of my favorite Childhood Memories of Christmas was the year we couldn’t afford a tree. I don’t recall who had the idea, but it was decided that we would put nails in the wall in the shape of a tree & string lights on them and that would be our tree that year.
We lived in an apartment at the time, and our neighbors were very confused about all the banging! To my childhood self, that tree was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen.
I grew up very poor. After my dad moved to another state with his new family, it was just me, Mom & my brothers.
Mom worked hard, often at multiple jobs, and we cleaned offices as a family in the evenings to make ends meet. In spite of this we still sometimes needed housing assistance & church pantry meals to get through.
We lived on generic everything, Dry Milk, Ramen & loads of pasta & potatoes. I am honestly so grateful for all of it. I never look back on my childhood Christmases & think “I wish we had more”.
Because even in the years when there was enough money for gifts, I couldn’t tell you what I received. What I do remember is the look on my mom & my brother’s faces putting up nails for the tree on the wall and the faith that our family would have Christmas no matter what.
We were the freakin’ Who’s down in Whoville. If all we did was play board-games & color & eat spaghetti it would still be Christmas, and it would probably be more memorable.
Maybe that’s why I’m not super traditional about Christmas, making do with what you can find forces a person to be flexible.
🎄I remember the blue stuffed dog I got from Toys 4 Tots he was my favorite for a really long time 🎄I remember the 4 of us lying on our bellies coloring in the living room waiting up to see if Santa would come. 🎄I remember the years we were each allowed to pick out our favorite cereal, even if it had Sugar in the first 5 ingredients 🎄I remember the mornings that we found a box on the porch with a turkey breast & a bag of potatoes so we could have a real dinner. 🎄I remember my brother and I removing the labels from the tuna cans & rolling them across the floor to each other 🎄I remember Mom was not amused the year the “Santa box” had both tuna & cat food cans 🤣
The year we had the wall tree, some friends from our church showed up a few days before Christmas with a real tree & a stand for us. They helped us set it up & decorate & we cried happy grateful tears.
If you ask me though, the real tree was never as beautiful as the lights on our “tree” on that wall.
I guess what I’m trying to say is if you’re struggling financially this year, know that your kids will be ok. Real magic never comes from things. The real magic in life comes from the unlikeliest of places.
The places where we struggle, stumble, fall on our faces, learn which friends will help us to rise, and discover the person we have become as we climb back to our feet.
Happy Holidays my friends, whatever holidays you choose to celebrate may this season fill your heart with real magic
We walk – we eat healthy – but the mental part is also important !
Our roses out front
A healthy body also has to have a healthy mind – at least mine does !
So – when we moved into our house thirteen years ago –
I started digging up – replanting – moving – shrubs – putting in trees
( 3 Crepe Myrtles ) and numerous rose bushes – flowers that came back year after year.
Crepe Myrtle out front
I had to dig these trees on my hands and knees – being so many rocks ! With that being said – when they bloom a bright ruby red – I just love them – and it all was worth it !
Ninety five per cent comes back
Flowers and color do a lot for my mind and peaceful thoughts.
But – as you get older – weeding kills your back – at least mine !
So – this year – I bought the mulch from the boy scouts – and actually paid them to spread it around – 25 bags !
It was well worth it and half the cost of anyone else.
Flowers and flags
These roses will bloom off and on until Fall – most everything in the beds comes up each year.
Walking home – when coming in sight of the house- gives me a great calming thought – seems like any stress just goes away –
and that is for my mental being.
Front steps and door
Sherry always plants the planters around the house – in back -the patio and the front porch.
So – when people visit – the visual of flowers – the welcome mat – sitting on the front porch or in the enclosed patio – brings calm – that is why we do it .
The back patio and Tower Gardens
Each year – in the back – we plant flowers and the Tower Gardens –
which provide our vegetables daily.
In front of these are the other two Crepe Myrtles that I hand planted – all the trees and bushes here I also planted.
Yesterday’s harvest from our strawberry patch
We also grow our own strawberry’s – enough to provide us each morning for breakfast while they last.
Living a healthy lifestyle – to reduce stress – we plant – we grow and produce vibrant colors all Spring – Summer and Fall.
We actually grow even in Winter inside our garage.
For a stress relief – try flowers – smell them – watch them grow –
Sometimes you drink a little wine – you do silly things – but you always smile – but – to start my day before some wine is ” COFFEE ” !
My favorite time of the morning
For those of you who do not know me – I have always gotten up EARLY !
Like I am up by 5:00 AM. every morning – I only need 6 to 7 hours of sleep and then I am wide awake.
Have been this way since my youth ! I would wake up – my bedroom was the front upstairs bedroom – and right outside the two windows – was a huge Maple tree.
It would be full of birds chirping in the morning -and that bedroom faced East.
So – the combination of Sun light coming in and the birds singing – well -that was my favorite before I was old enough to drink coffee !
My grand father David & my grand mother Nora
I was raised in my early years by my grand ma – she was a widow and had moved in with us.
My very first time I can remember having coffee – was when she made me ” COFFEE SOUP ” for breakfast – as she called it !
During the depression when she had her farm and family -11 kids – they had to improvise to feed everyone.
And one of the staples living on a large farm was -they had milk from the cows –
they bought barrels of flour ( homemade bread ) – big bags of sugar – and raised pigs for side pork !
So – ” COFFEE SOUP ” became a norm for them – coffee being a treat for the whole house – and she would make bread and rolls – pies and cakes all day long.
She would slice me a big thick piece of home made bread – put it on a plate – a piece of side pork that she fried –
then pour coffee on top of the bread – a little milk and sprinkle sugar on it !
BEEN THERE DONE THAT
To this day I remember that and how good it tasted with that side pork !
That was my introduction to COFFEE all those years ago.
And – another lunch time feature from the depression years – was Milk off the farm and white crackers and sugar mixed together !
Although I have never had either since – I was raised that way !
Today – first thing is fix my coffee – a little flavored cream –
and I try to have flavored coffee – not strong – I tend not to like strong flavors – beer included –
and I do not really like wine unless it is a little sweet !
Nothing better than to sip coffee in public and people watch
Sipping my coffee while blogging –
sitting in public with a coffee and people watch –
between church services – getting a cup of java and talking.
Those are the little things in life that as you get older – you cherish.
Much like I do in my memory of my grandma.
COFFEE became a staple in my life along time ago – and since I am up before dawn –
it is all the more tasteful in the quiet space of peaceful thought !
Sherry does not like COFFEE – she is a TEA drinker
My wife – Sherry – does not drink COFFEE –
she is a TEA drinker – I think that is the SWEDE coming out in her !
We had traveled to Raleigh N.C. to see Sherry’s sister.
On that Saturday – we went into Raleigh early
11-23-19 parade started at 9:15 am.
to find a parking spot
and meet up with her daughter – husband and two grand kids.
Tom and Sherry in downtown Raleigh waiting for the parade to start
This happened to be the 75th. year of this parade
a parade that was scheduled to go for 2 1/2 hours!
But – rain was predicted
we hoped we would see it all!
The first marching band was from
The University of North Carolina State
North Carolina State marching band I am guessing some where around 5 or 6 hundred in the bandThey kept coming and performed just past usThe end of North Carolina State marching band
We managed to see all kinds of units
clowns – horses – cars – trucks – drill teams
But the marching bands kept coming
And they almost all were High School and huge
One after another
The uniforms were just fantastic
and most seem to be from this area
We got to see them all perform just past our spotOur niece Kristy – daughters and husband Casey along with Sherry’s sister Debbie
The rain held off – there were floats – Queens and courts
both local and state.
Band after bandIt started to sprinkle
Gingerbread – followed by a band – preceded by a band
They were running with the shark and would run toward the crowd on either side of the street and at the last moment turn away the kids loved it!There were about a dozen trucks like thisStar Wars 20 to 30 people dressed up like all Star Wars peopleMany Ethnic groups marchedThe many different Queens
It was here that it started to rain harder
we had watched for two hours
a dozen or two of marching bands
We started gathering up our chairs
covering our heads
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The legion for Star Wars
We stayed as long as we could
I felt sorry for the remainder of the parade
as I looked up the street – there was no end in sight
we had seen in two hours so much it is hard to explain
or to remember.
Sherry watching the marching bands Put this parade on your bucket list It was not on mine but I want to return it was that good!
Good Morning Two months ago she left in the middle of August to attend the University Of Lynchburg
We had not seen or talked to her in that time –
She was at University – early – for the women’s soccer team.
She had been training all Summer –
running – she had to run two miles in under 12 minutes !
Team bonding late Summer
The coach – Dr. Todd Olsen – is a motivator –
Team bonding – both mental and working together –
achieving a goal placed before them.
His teams have reached the NCAA Division Three playoffs
TWELVE STRAIGHT YEARS !
Winning the NATIONAL CHAMPIONSHIP in 2014.
Losing in the Quarter finals last year
Being involved building that trust in one another
I have watched from afar
His program is the real deal
” WE DO NOT REBUILD – WE RELOAD ” !
is what he says !
The Team bonding on the fieldBecoming one Maddy second from top left
Today they are in second place in their conference
out of fourteen teams
having won the conference last year
with a 23 – 3 – 1 record
Today they are 9 – 3- 1 having played a power early schedule
Playing the number two team in the country
to a 1 to 1 tie.
Not bad for having graduated TEN SENIORS from that team.
University of Lynchburg Va. HORNETS
Maddy as a freshman – does not start -very few do –
But she has played in 90 % of the games
They are stacked at Mid fielders –
So – he has moved her to defense
back line in front of the goalie !
Maddy protecting the goal
When she first started playing soccer
that is where they put her
because of her quickness and speed
Later – because of her ball skills and passing
they moved her to Midfielder.
Maddy defending
When you play this level in college
everyone is quick and fast !
With her time playing midfield she brings to that back line the ability to advance the ball and draw in the defenseMaddy bringing the ball up fieldDrawing the defense opens up the lane
I could see that she adjusted well –
She has the skill
She played a total of 25 minutes
He has 33 players on the team
With 11 being seniors !
Maddy is one of 10 Freshmen !
He subs in and out – keeping them fresh.
Maddy’s number 13 was passed down to her from a senior from last year who assists the team this year saying ” She wanted that number’s tradition passed down “
As a Freshmen – Maddy finished 5th. overall in the two mile
She finished first among the Freshmen.
Maddy bring the ball
She has handled the switch extremely well
She loves the team – the coaches and the school
A scavenger hunt designed for team building Each team had a color theme The coach does this team building once a week and twice a week in the off season Every FOUR years he takes the Team to Puerto Rico To do social work Helping others in need !Maddy – after the game with her three little cousins and Bode screamed the entire time she was playing “MADDY – MADDY “Sarah 13 sister Debby (mother) Maddy & Ella 17 sister
We brought her home to sleep in her own bed
after two months being in a dorm room
but more important –
for her Mother’s birthday
and spend time with her sisters & family.
Mike ( father ) Sarah and Bode Maddy and Sherry ( grandmother)
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Maddy
She is excelling – she is happy – she is now a “HORNET ” !
For University of Lynchburg , Va.
Women’s Soccer team.
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We have belonged to our church I guess 13 or 14 years –
and he has been there for the better part of that.
Pastor Joe and Pastor Annabelle
Then – around seven years ago –
Pastor Annabelle –
joined him as our associate pastor –
” One of our own ” as the Bishop said yesterday.
Having been raised in our Synod –
and ordained –
Becoming our co – pastor after her call to Community Lutheran Church.
From TWO to ONE
It was a sad day yesterday –
for we had our Bishop –
who also is retiring at the end of August –
Doing the service and afterword –
A open question and answer
with the Pastors and the Bishop
And knowing in a few short months –
we shall not see Debra ( wife ) – and Joe again.
For in our Lutheran church –
they must leave and have no contact for years.
Joe and Debra Along with Joe is Debra a staple and a enduring influence on the church as a whole ! Joe and Debra on one of our trips into DC to see a play. Debra has many roles in the church, which will take a church full of people to replace her. Debra and Sherry at the Washington National Cathedral. Sherry for one is really going to miss her at book club. But plans on keeping her informed through email on what books we are reading and hoping she can once again supply her insight and critique of that which we read through email !! DEBRA – WE ALL SHALL MISS YOU !!!!!
He shall always remain in spirit
Debra and Joe brought this every day- they both will be missed – but we must forge ahead as Gods work does not rest and once again – with Pastor Annabelle we will unite and make Community the place of comfort for those seeking.
With sadness comes hope – for you see – in the Lutheran Church –
The next Pastor will be called by our membership –
After extensive vetting.
As was Pastor Joe and Pastor Annabelle.
Pastor Annabelle
One goes and one remains –
Pastor Annabelle has become endeared to us all.
Her smile – her compassion – her voice rings clear in service.
For years and years – every Thursday or Friday – she sits in the coffee shop –
Offering free prayers and consultations to any and all – with open arms.
She truly is one of a kind.
For a time – we will count down the time and say our goodbyes –
Our memories – laughter at book club with Debra –
Her wit – her insight – her presence will be missed greatly.
Pastor Joe – his drive forward – his open arms –
his eyes taking in all new people in the pews and extending a welcome.
Their leadership
Their leadership – their compassion –
has led Community Lutheran to this point –
A welcoming to all –
Pastor Annabelle
We – the congregation – are the winners here –
To know both Pastor Joe and Debra –
To have them in our lives all these years –
Has been a blessing –
And to Have Pastor Annabelle and Jeff – her husband – to move forward –
We have had the best of two Worlds.
Already from what she said on Sunday – moving ahead –
Moving the congregation toward that common goal they both established.
The doctrine of the Church – the Open arms –
Community , as the word says – involving all –
Young Clergy Woman moving us forward –
We shall always remember – as when we first came and Pastor Paul retired.
We moved on and new beginning took shape –
And in a few months –
it shall happen once again.
Welcome Pastor Annabelle & Jeff – Farewell Pastor Joe and Debra
Pastor Annabelle & Pastor Joe
” LEAVING ON A JET PLANE ” as the song goes –
Saying fare thee well –
” I’LL BE HOME AGAIN “
Saying welcome to Community Lutheran – FREE PRAYERS AVAILABLE !
They both are moving forward – each in their own direction –
But with in the Spirit of the Lord –
each with COURAGE AND HOPE –
Fare thee well and Hello and welcome
JOE AND ANNABELLE
PAPA’S WORLD – THE LUTHERAN WAY – GOING TO MISS HIM
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